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>>> IT’S TIME TO WEIGH IN ON
SOME FRIENDSHIP DEALERSHIPSILEMM
CODE.
ALL RIGHT.
HERE WE GO.
FIRST UP, I HAVE A GROUP OF
GIRLS I TRAVEL WITH AND WE GET
ALONG GREAT.
A FRIEND NOT IN THE GROUP JUST
ASKED IF SHE COULD COME ALONG
AND I DON’T WANT TO RUIN THE
DYNAMICS.
CAN I SAY NO?
BOY, I I CAN’T BELIEVE SHE HAS
THAT MOXIE TO SAY --
>> IF YOU HAVE THE MOXIE TO SAY,
CAN I BE INCLUDED?
HERE IS THE QUESTION.
IF YOU FEEL LIKE SHE ISHAS
NEGATIVE VIBES --
>> I THINK YOU HAVE TO CLEAR IT
WITH THE GROUP.
IF ONE PERSON IS, LIKE, I’M
BRINGING A NEW PERSON AND YOU
HAVE YOUR OWN DYNAMIC AND OWN
FLOW, I THINK I WOULD CHECK WITH
MEMBERS OF THE GROUP AND SAY,
LOOK, I DON’T HAVE ANY SKIN IN
THE GAME.
A FRIEND OF MINE WOULD LOVE TO
JOIN US.
>> WEIGH IN.
THOUGHTS.
>> TAKE THE TEMPERATURE.
IF THEY SAY IT’S JUST US, I
DON’T WANT TO GET TO KNOW A NEW
PERSON --
>> I WEIGHED IN WITH THE GROUP
AND THEY DON’T LIKE YOU?
>> I WOULD LOVE TO DO A HANG
WITH YOU AT SOME POINT.
THIS IS SOMETHING WE HAVE BEEN
DOING 15 YEARS AND WE HAVE OUR
OWN FLOW.
>> SHE IS NEW --
>> YES.
WE HAVE OUR OWN FLOW AND YOU ARE
NOT A PART OF IT?
>> YEAH.
YOU JUST SAY -- YOU UNDERSTAND.
IF YOU START WITH YOU
UNDERSTAND, I USUALLY GO, YOU
UNDERSTAND, WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS
FOR 20 YEARS.
WE KIND OF HAVE THIS --
>> WHEN YOU SAY, YOU UNDERSTAND
TO ME, I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU
ARE DOING.
>> YOU UNDERSTAND, RIGHT?
BY THE WAY, IT DOES WORK.
TRY IT.
ALSO, DON’T SAY BUT, SAY AND.
YOU KNOW WHAT?
MY FRIENDS AND I GO, AND I WOULD
LOVE TO --
>> LET’S GO THE TWO OF US.
>> WITH YOU SOMETIME.
>> OR WHAT ABOUT, YOU
UNDERSTAND?
>> NO.
HOW ABOUT, YOU UNDERSTAND, THIS
HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR YEARS, AND
I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A HANG WITH
YOU.
HOW ABOUT THIS?
LOOK, YOU KNOW WHAT?
MY FRIENDS ARE HAPPY TO HANG,
BUT AT SOME POINT I’D LIKE TO
HAVE A HANG WITH YOU.
SEE HOW TERRIBLE THAT SOUNDS?
>> YOU ARE RIGHT.
YOU UNDERSTAND AND "AND" MAKES
IT BETTER.
>> SHE LIKES TO SAY "AND" AND
"YOU UNDERSTAND" A LOT.
>> MY BEST FRIEND TOLD ME I
WASN’T GOING TO BE THE MAID OF
HONOR AT HER WEDDING.
SHE PICKED A CHILDHOOD FRIEND
SHE PROMISED A WHILE BACK.
NOW I DON’T WANT TO GO TO THE
WEDDING AT ALL.
>> STOP, STOP, STOP.
>> CAN I SKIP IT?
NO.
SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND.
NO.
>> NO.
>> YOU CANNOT SKIP IT.
YOU UNDERSTAND THAT SHE IS YOUR
BEST FRIEND, AND SHE PROMISED A
CHILDHOOD PAL.
>> YEAH.
FIRST OF ALL, DON’T SKIP IT,
BECAUSE THAT’S REALLY -- FIRST
OF ALL --
>> THAT WOULD HURT HER FEELINGS.
>> AND SPITEFUL AND NOT COOL.
YOU KNOW WHAT?
JUST --
>> BE LUCKY YOU DON’T HAVE TO
BUY THE BRIDESMAIDS DRESS YOU
WILL NEVER WEAR AGAIN.
>> MAYBE THE BRIDESMAID BUT NOT
THE MAID OF HONOR.
>> WELL, OKAY.
I MEAN --
[ LAUGHTER ]
>> AND YOU’RE GOING TO BE FINE.
>> YOU CAN’T SKIP THE WEDDING.
>> AND YOU CAN’T.
>> NO.
>> OKAY.
NEXT ONE.
I TOTALLY BLEW IT.
SPACED OUT ON TEXTING MY FEND
FOR HER BIRTHDAY, IT WAS
YESTERDAY.
WHAT’S THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE
IT?
JUST WHAT YOU JUST WROTE US.
>> I DO IT AT LEAST TWICE A
MONTH.
>> FORGIVE ME.
YOU KNOW ME AND I’M SORRY.
>> YEAH.
YOU UNDERSTAND, I LOVE YOU, AND
I’M SO SORRY I MISSED YOUR
BIRTHDAY --
>> AND --
>> CAN I TAKE YOU FOR A DRINK?
>> PICK YOUR NIGHT.
>> I TAKE YOU OUT FOR A DRINK
AND I LOVE YOU.
NOBODY CARES MUCH, I DON’T
THINK.
>> IT WILL DO.
PEOPLE GET UPSET IF YOU DON’T
GET A TEXT.
>> I AM TERRIBLE.
>> OKAY.
WHAT IF -- WHO IS ONE OF YOUR --
OKAY.
WENDY, YOUR COUSIN.
>> THROW HER OUT.
>> NO, I DON’T KNOW HER
BIRTHDAY.
IT’S IN APRIL.
SO IT COULD BE TODAY.
WHAT IS TODAY?
>> AND?
>> AND I MIGHT HAVE FORGOTTEN
IT.
>> WOULD WENDY BE MAD AT YOU?
>> MAYBE.
>> PROBABLY NOT.
>> OKAY.
SHE KNOWS ME, THAT I HAVE A GOOD
HEART, BUT IT’S IN AUGUST
SOMETIME.
I MIGHT FORGET IT.
THEY KNOW MY HEART IS PURE AND
MY BIRTHDAYS ARE BAD.
>> GOOD, GOOD.
>> WHEN IS MY BIRTHDAY?
>> I DON’T KNOW.
>> I KNOW YOURS.
>> WHEN?
>> AUGUST 7th.
>> NO, IT’S NOT.
AND I STILL LOVE YOU.
>> WHAT MONTH IS MY BIRTHDAY?
>> I DON’T REMEMBER.
>> YOU DON’T KNOW THE MONTH OF
MY BIRTHDAY AND WE HAVE BEEN
TOGETHER FIVE YEARS.
>> WHAT’S THE MONTH?
>> NOVEMBER.
>> WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR
FIVE YEARS.
>> I KNOW IT’S FIVE.
ALL RIGHT.
THE LAST ONE.
I TEXTED MY FRIEND KIM TO GO OUT
ON FRIDAY NIGHT BUT SHE LEFT ME
ON RED FOR THREE DAYS.
TIRED OF WAITING -- FIRST OF
ALL, TURN YOUR READ NOTIFICATION
OFF.
THEN IT HAD PEOPLE BUSTING YOU.
I MADE OTHER PLANS.
KIM JUST RESPONDED SHE WANTS TO
GO OUT.
I TOLD KIM I’M BUSY AND NOW SHE
IS MAD.
WHO IS RIGHT?
>> WAIT, BACK UP.
>> SHE WROTE KIM.
>> YEAH.
>> SHE TEXTED, GO OUT FRIDAY.
>> AND SHE SAW SHE READ IT.
>> YEAH.
>> THREE DAYS.
>> AND DIDN’T RESPOND.
BECAUSE SHE HAS KIDS AND A --
>> I KNOW.
YOU NEED -- NOW MANY THINGS -- I
GOT TO REPLY.
THEN IT’S BURIED --
>> NOW SHE IS MAD AT HER.
KIM IS MAD.
OKAY?
HERE IS THE THING.
TO KIM’S FRIEND, TAKE OFF YOUR
READ NOTIFICATIONS.
I MEAN, THAT IS THE -- WHO --
RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOU HAVE A
READ NOTIFICATION ON IN HERE.
>> IT’S READ.
>> I HAVE IT.
I HAVE IT ON MINE.
I KNOW PEOPLE READ IT.
>> NO, YOU DO NOT.
>> YES, I DO.
>> NO, YOU DO NOT.
>> IF I TEXT YOU, YOU DOUGH DO
NOT
DON’T HAVE IT.
IT SAYS DELIVERED.
IT DOESN’T SAY READ.
>> I HAVE ONE THAT SAYS, READ,
WHEN SOMEONE’S READ IT.
>> YOU GUYS, THAT’S THEIRS.
IT’S NOT YOURS.
>> WHAT?
Y’ALL, I’M SENDING YOU A TEXT.
>> IT SAYS DELIVERED.
I GET YOUR TEXT AT 3:30 IN THE
MORNING.
HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY.
PUT A PENCIL IN YOUR MOUTH AND
TRY SMILING.
>> IF YOU HAVE A GIRL CODE --
DID WE ANSWER THE QUESTION?
>> THE ANSWER IS ANSWER.
TELL KIM’S FRIEND TO TURN OFF
HER READ NOTIFICATIONS.
>> READ.
>> IT’S READ, RIGHT?
>> IF YOU HAVE GOT A -- READ.
>> Y’ALL, IT’S THE SAME --
SPELLED THE SAME.
>> AND IT’S READ, AND I KNOW YOU