>>> IT IS TIME FOR HODA AND
JENNA’S RELATIONSHIP DILEMMAS.
>> IF YOU WANT TO SPEND THE
COOLER FALL MONTHS CUDDLING WITH
SOMEONE SPECIAL, WE HAVE SOME
HELP
DEVIN SIMONE IS HERE TO ANSWER
ALL OF OUR VIEWERS’ QUESTIONS.
THANK GOODNESS, WE NEED YOU.
>> PEOPLE HAVE TONS TO ASK
>> LET’S DO IT
FIRST UP, MEGAN FROM ST. LOUIS
LET’S HEAR WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY
>> HOW DO YOU KNOW IF WHAT
SOMEONE IS SHARING EITHER IN
CONVERSATION OR VIA A PROFILE ON
A DATING APP OR WEB SITE IS
AUTHENTIC AND TRUTHFUL
SOMETIMES IT SEEMS IT CAN BE A
LITTLE TOO GOOD.
>> HOW TO SPOT A PHONY
>> CAT FISHING IS A REAL THING
>> WHAT’S CAT FISHING?
>> IT’S WHEN THEY WEAR HATS ALL
THE TIME SO YOU THINK THEY HAVE
HAIR AND THEY DON’T.
THE REALITY IS YOU DON’T KNOW
WHEN THEY’RE TELLING THE TRUTH
OR NOT, WHICH IS WHY IT’S
IMPORTANT TO TAKE YOUR TIME.
MOST THINGS WILL REVEAL
THEMSELVES IN TIME SO DON’T RUSH
IT
YOU CAN DO BASIC MATH.
ONE PLUS ONE SHOULD ALWAYS EQUAL
TWO.
IF THEY SAY THEY RUN SEVERAL
COMPANIES BUT THEY’RE MOMENTHOME
MESSAGING YOU ALL DAY, THEY
PROBABLY DON’T HAVE A DAY.
>> LET’S HEAR DENZEL’S
SITUATION.
>> I’M CURRENTLY IN RELATIONSHIP
AND WE TEXT AS SOON AS WE WAKE
UP, WE SAID GOOD MORNING, HOW
ARE YOU DOING, HOW DID YOU
SLEEP, WHAT ARE YOU HAVING FOR
BREAKFAST?
MY QUESTION WAS IS THAT
OVERSHARING AND IS THAT GOING TO BECOME A PROBLEM IN THE FUTURE
>> DENZEL, THAT’S SO CUTE!
>> THAT IS NOT OVERSHARING
>> THAT’S LOVELY
>> OVERSHARING DOESN’T REALLY
APPLY WHEN YOU’RE IN A
RELATIONSHIP
IT’S SORT OF LIKE WHEN YOU’RE ON
A FIRST DATE
BUT THAT’S GOOD COMMUNICATION.
WHAT IS RELATIONSHIP BUT SHARING
EXPERIENCES AND MOMENTS
TOGETHER
>> AS LONG AS IT’S MUTUAL.
IF YOU’RE LIKE GOOD MORNING, I
LOVE YOU, HOW WAS YOUR BREAKFAST AND YOU GET BACK, GOOD, EGGS
>> NOT GOOD.
>> SARAH FROM CHARLOTTE HAS A
QUESTION
>> WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON A
FEMALE PURSUING AN OBVIOUS
CONNECTION
IS IT A TURN ON OR A TURN OFF
FOR A MANIF A FEMALE IS THE ON
PURSUING THAT INITIAL
CONNECTION
>> IT’S 2022
>> YES
>> PURSUE BUT DON’T BE
OVERBEARING ABOUT IT
LIKE YOU COULD SAY SOMETHING
CUTE AND SIMPLE LIKE, HEY, IS IT
JUST ME OR IS THIS A THING
I KNOW YOU THINK I’M CUTE BUT
HOW CUTE DO YOU THINK I AM
THIS
IF THEY’RE LIKE, I THINK YOU’RE
CUTE BUT I’M SEEING SOMEONE,
IT’S REALLY EASY BREEZY.
DON’T START CALLING THEM ALL
DAY.
>> I THINK IT’S WHERE IT TURNS
TO NEEDY WHERE IT’S A TURNOFF IN
ANY RELATIONSHIP
>> YOU KNOW HOW YOU’RE IN THAT
BANTER YOU JUST SAID, WHAT IF U
DON’T HAVE THAT?
WHAT IF YOU’RE NOT GOOD AT THAT
GAME
>> YOU’RE GOOD AT THAT GAME!
>> WHAT IF THAT’S NOT YOUR
THING?
>> IF THAT’S NOT YOUR THING,
CALL THE THREE OF US, WE’LL HELP
YOU OR ASK A FRIEND WHO MIGHT BE
A LITTLE BIT BETTER.
>> YOU CAN ALSO SAY THIS IS NOT
MY DEAL.
>> YOU CAN JUST SAY IS THIS A
THING?
IS IT JUST ME, OR IS THERE
SOMETHING HERE
>> I HAD SOMEBODY TELL ME IF YOU
FEEL IT’S A THING, IT’S ALWAYS A
THING.
>> NO, THAT IS NOT TRUE.
THAT IS NOT TRUE
>> EYE TELLOUR GURU TOLD ME IF Y
A SPARK, THERE’S SOMETHING
CHEMICAL
>> ON YOUR SIDE.
>> BUT YOU’RE MAKING UP THAT THE
PERSON IS FLIRTING WITH YOU?
>> YOU FEEL IT
THERE IS A SPARK BUT MAYBE IT’S
NOT LIT.
>> WE GOT ONE MORE
WE WANT TO HEAR FROM ALLY FROM
CHARLOTTE.
>> I’VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP
FOR SIX YEARS AND I KNOW
MARRIAGE IS IN THE CARDS FOR US.
AS A MATTER OF FACT, I KNOW HE’S
ALREADY ASKED MY DAD FOR HIS
PERMISSION FOR MY HAND, BUT ALL
MY FRIENDS ARE HAVING FAMILIES
NOW AND I’M GETTING REALLY
ANTSY, SO SHOULD I GIVE HIM AN
ULTIMATUM?
>> NO.
ULTIMATUMS ARE NOT GREAT
>> HE’S ALMOST THERE
GIVE HIM A MINUTE.
>> IF HE’S ASKED HER DAD, HE’S
MOVING
>> HE’S SLOW MOTION IN
EVERYTHING
>> BUT I AGREE
BECAUSE YOU’RE LIKE AT THE
FINISH LINE.
YOU DON’T WANT TO TRIP HIM
BEFORE HE GETS THERE
>> DON’T DO THAT
>> BUT ALL YOUR LIFE YOU ARE
GOING TO BE WAITING FOR THINGS
>> SHE ALREADY COMMITTED TO
THAT --
>> LISTEN, HENRY AND I WERE
TOGETHER -- THEY MIGHT BE YOUNG.
HENRY AND I WERE TOGETHER FIVE
YEARS.
YOU CAN’T --
>> AND YOU ASK THE DAD, YOU NEED
TO STEP ON IT.
>> SHE DIDN’T SAY HOW LONG
>> I AGREE BUT MAYBE HE DIDN’T
THINK THE DAD WAS GOING TO TELL
HER.
BECAUSE LISTEN --
>> WHY DID THE DAD TELL?
>> THAT’S THE QUESTION
>> WE’RE GOING TO GO INTO
BUSINESS TOGETHER.